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We didn’t have a choice.  We didn’t.  We simply didn’t.

Yes, in hindsight, we could have taken Rowan to a different town, or Australia.. where proper precautions would have been taken.  If we had known what we know now, we certainly would have put our entire family on that plane.

But I read stories like this one.  I read lots of them.  And I realize that this story isn’t about whether you agree with Cassandra, or her mother, or the doctors.

It’s a story about who is in charge.  And it’s not the parents:

http://www.economist.com/blogs/democracyinamerica/2015/01/medical-consent?fsrc=scn/tw/te/bl/ed/cassandrascatch22

And it wasn’t me.

I pleaded, I begged.  I made phone call after phone call.  Talked to doctor after doctor.

Do it without anesthesia.. “No”

Make him an in-patient.. “No”

Do more tests beforehand.. “No”

Find a better way.. “No”

Listen to me..NO!

“We are one of the best hospitals in the world.  We know what we are doing.”

“There is no other option.”

When they didn’t listen.. they didn’t just take away my son.  They took away my voice.  They took away me.

When people turn away, or don’t take action.. They don’t just turn away from my son.  They don’t just turn away from my loss.  They turn away from me.

And I matter.

“I’m not asking much… just your voice!” the sea witch told Ariel.  Is that really what it takes to live in the human world?

There is absolutely no relief when a bereaved parent can say I told you so.  It only causes more pain.

An article on alternative, and better, methods for heart imaging:

http://www.utsandiego.com/news/2015/mar/14/ct-scan-stress-test/

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“You do not have the right to say to a person: I don’t see you the way you are, I want to see you as I would be more comfortable seeing you.” Jane Elliot
I saw Jon Stewart’s piece about Eric Gardner, and I cried. I cried for Eric and his family, but I also cried because Eric’s story felt like another sucker-punch to my stomach.

I don’t think many people realize how connected we feel to these types of stories. Change the police to doctors; change racial discrimination to special needs discrimination, and you have us. Some may think that is too extreme a view, so it is a view that we don’t share with others often. But it is how we feel every day.

I don’t say this to discount racial discrimination or Eric’s personal story, but to point out that discrimination and unfairness in our society and justice system is present at many levels.

http://thedailyshow.cc.com/videos/a9bg2k/the-eric-garner-grand-jury-decision

After learning of the CDPH report, we are worried that Rowan was discriminated against because of his diagnosis, and therefore killed.

We feel this way because:
1. Based on Rowan’s special needs diagnosis (not on Rowan as a person), Dr. Raymond Fripp labeled Rowan as “uncooperative”
2. Because of this label, Dr. Raymond Fripp ordered the use of general anesthesia (which was dangerous for Rowan) for a diagnostic procedure
3. Because of Dr. Raymond Fripp’s label, Dr. Kathleen Kaya was not required to, and did not, provide precautions typical in all general anesthetic procedures
4. Because of #2 and #3, Rowan was killed
5. And finally, because Rowan had a special needs diagnosis, the hospital was able to justify his abysmal care. Because Rowan had special needs, the California Department of Health was able to support the hospital’s justification, and the Medical Board of California was able to ignore it.

This is how we feel.

Copyright © rowansmile 2014. All Rights Reserved. No part of this website or any of its contents may be reproduced, copied, modified or adapted, without the prior written consent of the author. Rowan was killed at Rady Children’s Hospital as a direct result of the carefree and unnecessary use of general anesthesia for a “routine” outpatient diagnostic procedure.   Please visit the rest of our story: http://www.rowansmile.me